Friday, April 4, 2008

The Art of Sharing

"Its only when you have prepared yourselves for others,then they will willing to share theirs.
To do this ,the key is SINCERITY........"

The art of sharing is actually quite simple but the problem is ,it is hard to be mastered.Simple in the way that you are practicing it everyday.For instance ,in school,the teacher is sharing their knowledge and passion.At home,parents are sharing their love with the kids and vice versa. And yet difficult to be mastered because not everyone is practicing it in a correct manner.

So,what is the correct way?To master it,we need to be sincere and overcome our insidious selfishness and jealousy. Why it is crucial to master this art?Well,simply because sharing is the practice of mutualism ,that is both parties benefit.

There is this story where a teenager attended a scholarship interview.This boy was quite confident as most of his best friend messaged him and said" YOU CAN DO IT".The day came and he entered the chamber (panel2) It was a challenge to him as this could affect his future.Well,thank God,he was given the discussion topic : Give me an incident where you have made a grave mistake,and what have you learnt from it?(its not a current issue topic)So the boy shared his experience,which is how he dealt with his mental conflict about his poor academic result due
to too engrossed in his debate activities and how he overcome it by working hard for SPM when he was form 5.Everything ended in a relaxing way.The boy enjoyed the process as he got to listen to others experiences too.So,actually it was more to a sharing session than an interview.That is what the boy concluded.
So,the art of sharing is depicted here.Everyone in the room was willing to share.Some even shared their childhood stories which is quite interesting and funny.Hence we can see the power of sharing,changing a tense atmosphere into a relaxing one.And everyone was cheerful as all got the chance to become a storyteller.

Well,there is another story,where a group of friends hold a gathering at a beach.That night ,they sat in a circle on the cool sand and enjoyed the land breeze.One of them,can be considered as the eldest there,start with a speech.
He said in a stern manner" My fellow younglings ,the purpose of gathering isnt just filling your stomach full,but it is a session where we share our feelings ,experiences and blessings."Hence ,the elder one started first.He shared his experience about how he had participated in a course preparing him to become an insurance agent.He conducted the session and most could feel his passion in the topic.BUT,there are those who didnt pay attention during the sharing session.When someone is so sincere in sharing,one should be all ears rather than not paying attention and talking among themselves. This is the time you show your sincerity as others already did !!well,he asked his fellow friends quite a number of question,for example:
#What is your future planning?(which is an important question that everyone should have an answer for it as they arent kids anymore after SPM)
#Have you ever thought of having a family and when would it be?
#when do you want to have your own house and and car?
#and Do you know what insurance you have bought ?(well,its a question from an insurance agent,but unfortunately not many can answer)
Then the others also shared theirs .....Overall,the sharing session was a success one and could be considered inspiring.Once again ,through sharing ,it caused the group of friends to ponder on some life related questions .Question that we must think of before is too late. Sharing provides us the chance to discuss a matter together,together can find a better solution.

Well,the third story is about a boy went to a camp.It was totally a new environment to him and he was alone.Then he met a friend,through out the camp,they become best best friend.Well,the reason they become bosom friend is because they always share their problems together.Through sharing ,they discuss lots of question regarding their lifes. It was a spiritual communication among them.Furthermore,they always support and encourage each other regardless any circumstances. When they face difficulties and conflicts,they share it .That is the way they find solution to their problems. The boy thank God for bestowing him a great friend.The sincerity of them in sharing leads them to eternal friendship.

Well,i guess thats all .Ops,dear me!!I have already shared so much. Well,all of it is from my inner heart,it is the prove of my sincerity.I would also like to welcome my fellow friends to my new blog.I welcome any comments and please point out my mistake if there are any.Thank you so much.

Last but not least,this blog practices the art of sharing ,and i am very sincere in meeting new acquaintance and do post comment so that i can do my best and keep on improving.

THANKS!^^
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2 comments:

空气 said...

A very meaningful story and art of sharing.Hope that i can write something like tat too.Thanx for sharing.u did it well ^^

The Tall Guy said...

well, people say sharing is caring... thx for such profound understanding...perhaps add a Cbox to let people share. You might think taking a Cbox is getting spams. Sharing requires faith and courage. So it's your first move to make. No one doesn't start a friendship just because they fear the friend betrays him, rather we look on the love and sharing from him. Take Courage, open a Cbox...hehe.